Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Oopsy, i’m beginning to feel like a broken record! But the long and short of it is that, as an asexual, i don’t experience sexual attraction, so sex is on a spectrum of being “meh” to repulsive for me. It doesn’t thrill or excite me, and even having an orgasm doesn’t change much. But BDSM allows my partner and i to unlock an even deeper level of intimacy by incorporating psychological and emotional elements not found in vanilla sex. Because of this, i am able to participate in sexual activity with gratification and intrigue, as well as please my partner sexually.
fuck you readers..